just bc someone has low self esteem or has depression doesnt mean theyre not fucking disgusting and manipulative and i keep having to learn this lesson over and over
If someone uses their mental illnesses as an excuse to hurt you without apologizing you get the fuck out of there. My abuser would use it as an excuse and make me feel guilty for my hurt feelings because it wasn’t his fault he was cruel to me.
#i tell my patients all the time: you are not responsible for having a mental illness#but you are responsible for doing your best to manage it once you know#and you are responsible for the things you do to others#and these things have consequences#in addiction especially i run into patients who want their family to forgive them now that they are in treatment#and i have to gently remind them that their efforts now#do not erase the harms they caused#there is a line between self forgiveness and not taking any accountability#and it is fine but it is CRUCIAL to recovery
college is catered towards the able bodied and able minded. school applauds people who can stay up all night, skip meals, and work endlessly. that kind of extreme contribution is expected. why are disabled people being squeezed out of academic institutions? why should I feel inferior because of some arbitrary and ridiculous standard?
this is the realest fuckin shit i’ve read all night
twelve hours before my first class, too
for real if you actually try and take care of yourself when you’re in school many people will think you’re not trying “hard enough” as if the end goal of academics is to be hospitalized or something
get to know me meme: [1/10] female characters ♔ lydia martin (teen wolf)
“ I can’t just turn it on. I’m not like you guys. I don’t have claws or glowing eyes or super senses. I just have voices in my head. ”
really tho straight guys will go on and on about how uncomfortable it makes them when gay guys hit on them but lets be fucking honest how many times have u seen a guy continue to hit on another guy after hes visibly uncomfortable vs. how many times a straight guy has continued to hit on a girl after shes visibly uncomfortable
Have you been time traveling? Because if time traveling is real, I’m done, I’m out. You’re going to be driving me to Eichen House.
women: *are killed, beaten, raped, and put down constantly for hundreds of years just for being women*
woman who is also a feminist: *cracks a joke about men on the internet*
men: ”see this is the problem with feminism it promotes hate speech they’re no better than sexist men why can’t i punch women in the face and why does the guy have to pay on dates #equalitarianism”